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My Holiday Season Survival Tips

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My holiday season survival tips are rooted in years of practice. Sticking to the plan means less stress from early November all the way through early January. 

Holiday Season Survival Tips that work for my family. How I survive Thanksgiving and Christmas with less stress.

I define the holiday season as Thanksgiving and Christmas for my family because those are the special days we enjoy celebrating. It really begins on November 1 for us as we begin to anticipate Thanksgiving and begin making our Christmas plans.

Before Black Friday lost it’s thrill, we used to all bring our own newspaper loaded with sales ads to Thanksgiving dinner. Immediately after the meal we would begin creating a plan of action for shopping the sales! We would divide and conquer to get all those deals we needed for the kiddos.

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  • Day 1 (Gift Guides) 15 GIFTS WOMEN REALLY WANT UNDER $50
  • Day 2 (Holiday Survival Guides) MY HOLIDAY SEASON SURVIVAL TIPS (this is what works for me)
  • Day 3 (Kids Activities) TWEEN & TEEN CHRISTMAS ACTIVITIES (I interviewed my Grand kids and these are their answers)
  • Day 10 (Christmas Desserts) CRANBERRY PECAN WHITE FUDGE
  • Day 11 (Christmas Breakfast) CHICKEN AND CHEESE EGGS SKILLET

    Today is Day 2 of 12 Days of Holiday Ideas and I am sharing my personal tips with you on how I survive the holiday season beginning with Thanksgiving.

    Happy Thanksgiving Season

    Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year because it is the most relaxing. Our extended family will converge at our home with their best dishes in hand. We share a meal, laughs and just enjoy the fellowship of one another’s company with no strings attached. All of the little cousins get to play with one another and it really just makes my heart smile.

    My Holiday Season Survival Tips


    One word will describe How I Survive Hosting Thanksgiving, Lists!

    Nothing is more satisfying than checking items off a To-Do list! Have you ever actually added something to a list which you have already done just so you can check it off? Guilty and not ashamed!

    Set of 6 free printable sheets to keep you organized this Thanksgiving. If you are hosting a crowd, you know how much work goes into the planning! #Thanksgiving

    So I created this Thanksgiving Planner Set years ago and updated it last year. It works for me! I use it every year. You can download and print it for free.

    This year I created a Southern Thanksgiving Meal Plan which I have made available to purchase for only $7 right here. The best part is that I included a grocery shopping list for the ingredients needed for each dish to go along with the meal plan and 16 southern favorite Thanksgiving recipes.

    Southern Thanksgiving Meal Plan

    Delegate! If you host a crowd like we do, you must not be bashful about delegating. Tell everyone something to bring and they will gladly do it. Put someone in charge of games if your family enjoys playing games when you all get together. Follow our Pinterest Board GAMES FOR FAMILY & FRIENDS for tons of ideas.


    Holiday Season Survival Tips that work for my family. How I survive Thanksgiving and Christmas with less stress.


    Calendars, yes that is plural.

    Holiday Season Survival Tips that work for my family. How I survive Thanksgiving and Christmas with less stress.

    Write it down! I have been keeping one of these small purse size planner-calendars for as many years as I can remember. They are super cheap, under $3 and are always good for 2 years. It’s where I write down appointments and events. I keep mine in my purse or a kitchen drawer for quick reference. 

    Google Calendar app. It’s the easiest online calendar I have found to use and can be used on any device, cell phone or PC. Many of the appointments you make can be auto added to your Google calendar. I was recently scheduling a medical procedure, an eye exam and the exterminator during the same few days. Quickly being able to glance at my Google Calendar on my phone allowed me to keep those all from over-lapping.

    Are 2 Calendars over kill? Nope, not for me! If I double check then I won’t double book myself and I can see at a glance when to pencil in a day off from everything.

    My Holiday Season Survival Tips

    Shop Online

    I want to say shop early and often, online. Get those free shipping deals and avoid the crowds and traffic. That is stress relief right there!

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    Groupon is a hot spot for all sorts of deals on everything from hotel and travel to goods and gifts and even things to do deals! Go Here to sign up with my referral link and start shopping.

    Money Management

    No New Debt! Do you really want to still be paying off Christmas gifts in June when you would rather be planning vacation? Don’t run up  your charge card balances for gifting. There are many ways to share the thought without going into debt.

    Christmas Lists

    One way to manage your finances during the holiday season is Lists. Yep making a list can indeed help you manage your money. Keep reading and I will tell you how to use lists for financial management during the Christmas season.

    Make a list of all the expenses you expect to incur after Thanksgiving and before New Year’s. Then take a good hard look at your list and find a few things to eliminate. 

    Create a list of all the folks you will actually purchase a gift for and then ask yourself if there are maybe a couple of folks you can skip this year.

    Gift your talent. Get crafty and creative. Maybe your talent is sewing, drawing or crafting. Chances are pretty good that you already have a nice stash of crafting supplies you can use to make gifts

    Gift Yourself! You heard that right. The gift of time creates memories and you cannot put a price on memories.

    Take out that calendar we talked about earlier and create a schedule with the names of people you’d like to spend time with who are on your Christmas lists. Make each of them a small card telling them all about it. That is their gift from you. It might be watching a Hallmark movie with your Mom or going fishing with your Granddad. You get the idea. It’s free to give your time and it is also priceless.


    As much as we enjoy the decor we do not enjoy the time consumed in creating the decor. You can make decorating an event which is woven into celebrating the season with your family.

    Hot Cocoa Bar Ideas. Make your home warm and cozy this Christmas season with a Hot Cocoa Bar. 30 plus Hot Cocoa Bar Ideas

    Turn Decorating Into An Event

    Create a party feeling. Set up a small version of a Hot Cocoa Bar in your kitchen along with some cookies or sweet treats for Decorating Day. 

    Get all of the boxes of decor out of the attic or storage area and place them in a central location. 

    Delegate! That is up to you. Wouldn’t it be fun to see how they decorate with your seasonal decor differently than you do? No? Hmmmm, that sure is a lot of work for one person. People enjoy having the freedom to share their own creativity so you may want to think about this. Personally I won’t mind if my hubby has always wanted to place our Nativity in the foyer rather than the dining room. Be open to change and thankful for the family bonding opportunity. 

    Visit a Christmas Tree Farm as a family event. Most Christmas Tree Farms around us also sell Hot cocoa, have some photo spots set up and provide some form of activity for the children. You can easily make this annual trip into a family tradition your children will remember forever. They will be excited to help hang ornaments on the tree when you get back home.

    My Holiday Season Survival Tips


    There are usually a plethora of ideas available to go out with your family or a nice date with your sweetheart during the holiday season. My family used to all go out to the movies on Thanksgiving Day. 

    Pick a few of the offerings in your community and add them to your calendar. Build the excitement by reminding everyone occasionally of what is coming. Make a big Family Holidays Calendar and hang it on the refrigerator to keep everyone excited about the events you have planned. Anticipation creates excitement.

    A few ideas:

    • Christmas Plays at the community theater like The Nutcracker
    • Local Choral performances 
    • Christmas light tours
    • Go Ice Skating
    • Visit Santa
    • Special Church Services for Christmas programs
    • Holiday Excursion Train Ride
    • Go to the movies
    • Visit a Christmas Festival
    • Attend a Christmas parade

    I survive the holiday season by planning ahead, making lists to stay organized, delegating where I can and creating excitement with well planned family events.

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  1. Yes yes yes! I love all of this. I make all kinds of list this time of year and have a few beside me right now. Plus we just planned our Christmas fun ideas that will create wonderful memories with our kids.

  2. My family jokes that I make a list to make a list so I’m with you on the list-making. I also do most of my shopping online. I hate standing in long lines and all that traffic. You have so many great tips on surviving my favorite holiday season.

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