110 Conversation Starter Questions for Couples
Our Conversation Starter Questions For Couples are perfect for first dates or 50th Wedding Anniversaries. You will find fun, silly and serious questions in this collection of ideas.
You might be surprised to know that the couple pictured above are having their very first conversation. They have just met for the first time and used their own conversation starter questions developed from years of experience. I relished the moment to learn from them.
It’s true that ladies enjoy telling their wedding story almost as much as sharing their birth stories. We have a superpower called ’emotion’. We are able to make a deep connection though words. We love asking the men in our lives thought provoking questions, don’t we?!
The goal is of course, to deepen your relationship with that close bond only the two of you share. One way of achieving that is through intimate personal conversations. Some conversation starter questions should be for daydreaming together, some should be just for fun and some will help with making future plans together.
Get your partner on board by asking them to help you design a few of your own Conversation Starter Questions. You may not want to just start springing unusual questions on your spouse. Get him on board by allowing him to create a few questions too.
TWENTY CONVERSATION STARTER QUESTIONS FOR COUPLES
- Tell me about the first haircut you remember.
- Who is your hero?
- What is your favorite holiday?
- Tell me about your dream vacation?
- Which would you prefer on a nice spring day, picnic or fine dining?
- If you could have one superpower, which one would it be?
- What is your dream job?
- Which one of your father’s characteristics are you most proud to have inherited?
- Which of your Momma’s meals is/was always the best?
- What is your greatest fear?
- What is the one goal you are still working to achieve?
- Which talent of yours could you get paid to teach to others?
- If you could change your name, what would you change it to?
- What was your first pet?
- If you were a crop farmer, what crop would you be growing?
- What do you remember about our first date?
- What is your first memory of me?
- What is your dream car?
- What was your most interesting road trip ever?
- What was your first day of work like on your first job?
Go here to PRINT TWENTY CONVERSATION STARTER QUESTIONS
You can print the list of 20 questions using the link above but, you only need to memorize a couple to keep a date night conversation going. Conversation starter questions are great for taking along on long distance road trips too. I always stash the list with me when we head out on vacation. Those are the most fun conversations my husband and I enjoy.
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These are a lot of fun and many would be useful in other contexts as well. Great list!
Great list! Thank you for sharing at Home Sweet Home!
It always seems our talk revolves around the kids so I love these ideas. We have a date night coming up and I’m going to keep these handy!
These are great! It’s funny, I was so afraid that as we entered the “empty nest” phase, that we would have nothing to talk about together. It’s been fine, but I admit to spending time in advance thinking about what new things we can talk about over dinner. Lately there has been a whole lot going on at work, so our conversations have been a little work-focused, so I think I’m going to use some of these – thank you! Definitely pinning this one!
Wendy, we have been empty nesting for years now. At first, I was concerned too but now we are loving our life together as empty nester’s, as I’m sure you are too. We still frequently find our discussions reverting to the children and grandchildren. I hope you have fun with some of the questions on the list. We sure have. Thank you so much for stopping by and thank you for the Pin. My hubby and I always talk about work at the dinner table too. LoL
What a great idea. Sometimes I feel like when we are on a date with out the kids we just talk about the kids! lol I think I will use some of these on our next date.
I hope you do Censie. Won’t it be fun to just connect with each other again, like the good old days. 🙂
I love this list of great questions! They are much more interesting than just the usual small talk!
I’m glad you find the list interesting. I hope you use a few to spice up some quality time with your special someone.
I was actually just thinking about this recently! I need to ask my husband more than “how was work?” lol These are wonderful and I can’t wait to use them! 🙂
Very cool – I have been married for 25 years and still some of these questions would be interesting to hear the answers.
Athena, I’ve been married almost 19 years and I love these kinds of conversations the best!
I love this Shirley! Pinned and tweeted. Thanks for sharing with us this week at Brag About It! Can’t wait to pop some of these questions 🙂
Laurie, I actually keep a list on the desktop of my laptop and spring one every now and then. He thinks I’m surfing the net or working on my blog. He has no idea I’m really just thinking about him. 🙂
Thanks for sharing this great list of conversation starters. What a great idea! A great way to stay connected that doesn’t revolve around house, kids, money, etc.
Right! Don’t talk about the kids or finances or the broken central unit (at my house) just enjoy one another. Such a nice way to reconnect.
These are fun to get a conversation going!
It is so important to get to know someone well and we tend to get busy with life and take them for granted. My husband just found a different article with similar questions and suggested we take some time with it this weekend. I’ll be printing these out too!
How awesome that your hubby found some fun questions like these. I love that. Hope y’all have a wonderful date!
Every time my husband and I teach a marriage seminar at our church we give the couples an assignment. They have to go out on date and they can’t talk about the kids, finances or work. I bet some of them have a hard time trying to think of something to say that doesn’t involve work, kids or finances. These are all great conversation starters and would be perfect for date night or any night.
These are some great ideas. I remember going on a road trip with the hubs (we had no kids yet) and we did stuff like these. It was so much fun. We have not had a list like this for a while. Pinning.
Thanks for the Pin, Zan. My favorite thing about road trips is the conversations. We always talk a lot while riding.
So cute! I love questions to help you get to know each other better.
You should come link up at our Bloggers Spotlight party, we pin everything to our group board and have two separate link-ups, one for posts and one devoted to pins so you get even more exposure!
Thanks for the invitation. I will pop over and link up. Glad you enjoyed the list.
I love these questions – a little bit off centre and that would make for great conversations! thanks for sharing at our #OTM link up ~ Leanne
Thanks Leanne. I’d love to hear the laughter and see the smiles with reactions to some of these questions. I hope couples will feel closer to one another after having these kinds of fun conversations while taking a break from talking about the kids and finances.